A love letter to my fellow value-creators & paradigm shifters (P2/2)

I left you with the question: How can we be fully ourselves and be financially supported? And the way I best understand this is in the drawing above ^

Many identify with position [A]. Being fully “outside” the system. On the fringe of capitalism and unable to figure out how to belong within it. No longer interested in contorting, hiding, or shapeshifting who we are – for the sake of belonging.

As my brilliant friend said recently “I can no longer reign in any of my authenticity" and it perfectly describes the predicament.

I have come to understand that the system of capitalism is a watery, emotional, vortexing current that sweeps up everything in its path. We know we cannot have an impact if we exist outside of it [A] yet, many of us cannot just become part of it either. So what if we could create a way of being that allows us to be creators of the system [B]? And how do we get there?

How do we transition from [A] outsider to [B] creator:

In order to do this we must cross the threshold of the system; in other words “experience” it. And while many of us try, we end up either losing ourselves to it [1] or fighting to hold onto our authenticity within it [2]. But what if there is another way? A way where we can pass through without sacrifice or resistance?

I don’t fully know the art of passing through [3] but I know it involves an advanced level of detachment and security. No longer are we trying to will the system to change, but rather we walk with a sense of freedom, belief, and collective support so that the system passes right through us.

I firmly believe to be the creators of the system [B] we need to experience it with adaptability, openness, transparency, and a type of security that only comes with holding a different vision [3].

I’ve said that [3] is both the easiest and hardest way of being because de-conditioning isn’t comfortable. It definitely isn’t easy but once we are in that state, there is a gift of ease. And once we embody this way of being, only then can we pass through and step into the space as a creator. Become the epicenter.

This post is contemplative, a working theory and I offer it as a vision. One that serves those of us who are overflowing with soft skills, navigate the world in technicolor and embody wisdom not everyone is ready for.

May we continue to live our truths with kindness and bravery.
And may you enjoy the very human mistakes in my drawing.

Article FAQs
1. How can I be secure, detached, conditioned, and stay that way and – yet, at the same time, present and authentic? – from Amy W.
Balancing security, detachment, conditioning, and authenticity requires a nuanced approach. One can cultivate inner security and detachment by grounding oneself in core values and beliefs, fostering resilience to external pressures. Simultaneously, remaining present and authentic involves embracing vulnerability, acknowledging emotions, and practicing self-awareness. Striking this balance involves navigating between inner stability and outer expression, finding harmony in being anchored yet open to experience.

2. How do you know if you are flowing within the system or losing yourself to it? – from Alejandra M.
When flowing within the system, you maintain your authenticity and values while engaging with it, contributing positively without compromising your identity. Conversely, losing yourself to the system involves sacrificing core principles, feeling disconnected from your true self, and prioritizing external validation over personal integrity. Assessing your alignment with your beliefs, goals, and sense of fulfillment can help discern which path you're on.

3. How do you know if your authentic self is passing through the system on the pathway to becoming the creator of it? – from Alejandra M.
This involves a combination of internal and external indicators. Internally, you may feel a sense of alignment, purpose, and fulfillment as you navigate the system. You might also experience a deep sense of integrity and authenticity in your actions and decisions. Externally, you may notice that your presence and contributions are positively impacting the system, leading to meaningful change or progress. Feedback from others who recognize and appreciate your authenticity and vision can also confirm that you're on the right path. Overall, a combination of inner alignment and external impact can indicate that your authentic self is successfully navigating the system toward a creative role within it.